So this should be the one and only time you read me writing about a political statement….. Most likely. Probably. Hopefully.
The comments our president made about small business owners … about success in general last week absolutely blew me away (OK; pissed me off, really, but didn’t want to just come out so blatantly this early in the post…)
Why bring this up in a golf blog? Because it reaches the very foundation of success in golf!
He talked about how successful business people like to think that they are smarter, more talented, and/or work harder than the rest of us….. And he discussed how funny he thought that was!???!%$###!#!@@!!???wt#?
He thought it was funny because he believes people that work harder, or smarter don’t become successful because of that…. they become successful because of OTHER PEOPLE. He’s putting the priority of success on circumstance, luck, and help….. Ugh. That about sums up the greatest gap between successful golfers and the rest of the golfing world.
It bothers me soooooo much because it implies that golfers that get great coaches, or have great equipment become great. (I want to explode right now…. but trying to remain coherent)
The big issue is that he is not only for the most part wrong. HIS COMMENTS KILL THE VERY HEART OF SUCCESS!!!!!!!!! (yes, I’m yelling in print). His comments go completely against the essence of improvement, in golf, or in life.
OK, want to make this clear and to the point.
THERE IS NO GUARANTEES in life. There is no guarantee that someone who works harder, smarter, or is more talented than someone else will become more successful.
I also agree that most often, people don’t succeed by themselves….. Teachers, coaches, influential souls often play a large role in cultivating success….
MOST IMPORTANT. Without hard work, talent, brains, etc…. the chances of anyone attaining success are incredibly small!
In the end it’s a philosophy argument. I’m arguing that if you agree that successful people are successful because of government, because of others, or because of luck…. you are most likely in for a world of hurt and disappointment. (That is EXACTLY how I took the presidents comments). I philosophically disagree.
I’m arguing that if you believe that people that work harder, work smarter, and have more talent are the ones that have the best chance to create success….. You have an infinitely better chance of attaining success (in whatever endeavor you choose). This is the philosophy I choose to embrace.
Golf and life are difficult and multi, I mean multi faceted. There are countless little things that go into becoming successful at anything.
I’m hear to SHOUT AT THE TOP OF MY LUNGS that attitude (positive), work ethic (hard and pure) and brains (always willing to learn) are on the top of my SUCCESS LADDER.
New equipment and a great teacher WILL NOT make you a better golfer. HARD WORK, quality practice and a great attitude MIGHT. No guarantees, but I’m going with the better of the two choices. Happily, and with full confidence.
Go PLAY GOLF. Stop THINKING golf swing.
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