There should be just enough tension in the wrists and elbows
at the beginning of the swing so that the arms and club can go back connected
or in “one piece”. It is incorrect to be
relaxed at takeaway! You should be
composed, confident, and perhaps relaxed mentally, but if the hands and wrists
are relaxed just before takeaway, then you’ll need a pressure change to move
the club back (a grab with the hands), and that will destroy a physics
Compensations will then have to be made. Good luck with that!